When our kids accused us of spending their inheritance, we were stunned. But instead of getting angry, we decided to teach them an important lesson about life and money.
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My husband, Tom, and I have always prided ourselves on living a modest, yet fulfilling life. We worked hard, saved diligently, and now, in our golden years, we wanted to enjoy the fruits of our labor. Our doctor recently recommended that we take a little trip out of state for a vacation. It was a much-needed break for both of us. I planned a getaway to a cozy, inexpensive hotel by the beach.
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As soon as the reservations were confirmed, I couldn’t wait to share the happy news with our kids, Emma and Jake. I expected them to be happy for us, maybe even a little envious of our upcoming adventure. But their reaction left me utterly shocked.
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I showed Emma and Jake a picture of our cozy little hotel. Emma glanced at it and sighed.
“You know, you should think about us too,” she said. “Your money isn’t just yours; it’s also our inheritance. If you spend it all now, we’ll have nothing after you’re gone.”
Jake nodded in agreement. “Yeah, do you really need that vacation? People your age should stay home and keep it low-key. Why are you always spending money and doing things? Sometimes I feel like there’ll be nothing left for us.”
I felt tears welling up, but Tom squeezed my hand and shook his head. That’s when I knew he had a plan to handle this.
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Later that evening, Tom and I sat down to talk about what happened. I was still hurt by what the kids had said, but Tom was calm and thoughtful.
“They think our money is already theirs,” Tom said. “We need to teach them a lesson.”
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We came up with a plan. Instead of just arguing with them, we decided to show them that our money was ours to use as we saw fit. We wrote letters to Emma and Jake, explaining that we were going to donate a big part of our savings to charities we cared about. We wanted to help make the world a better place rather than just leave money sitting in a bank.
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We sent the letters just before we left for our trip. The day after we arrived at the hotel, Jake called me, furious.
The day after we arrived at the hotel, Jake called me, furious.
“What are you thinking?” he yelled. “Donating our inheritance? This is insane!”
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