Sandra thought the hardest part of married life would be learning to share space. She was wrong. A week after their wedding, her husband, Matt, dropped a bombshell: HER PAYCHECK WAS GOING TO HIS MOM. Shocked, Sandra refused to be the pushover they expected and had a genius plan up her sleeve.
You’d think the worst thing you’d face in your first week of marriage is deciding who takes out the trash or maybe arguing over how to load the dishwasher. But for me, it wasn’t even close.
Let me take you back to last week — just a few days after my “dream wedding” to Matt — when he dropped a bomb that turned my entire world upside down.
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Matt and I had been together for three years before tying the knot. He was funny, dependable, and someone I trusted completely. I’m a graphic designer, and I’ve always been independent when it comes to handling my bills and saving for my goals.
I thought Matt respected that about me. He said he loved how driven I was.
So, imagine my shock when, a few days into our marriage, we were curled up on the couch watching some rerun, and Matt casually said, “Oh, by the way, we need to talk about our finances.”
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I muted the TV, expecting something like a conversation about budgets or setting up a joint savings account. “Sure,” I said. “What’s on your mind?”
He smiled… not his usual warm smile, but a tight, almost rehearsed one. “We’ll be giving your salary to my mom. She’ll teach you how to spend it properly!”
“Like hell I will,” I spat, my voice trembling with disbelief and fury. “You can’t be serious.”
“My mother has managed every family financial decision for decades,” Matt retorted, a steel edge creeping into his tone. “Her system is proven.”
I blinked. “Wait. What?”
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“Yeah,” he said, sitting up straighter, like he was about to give a presentation. “Mom has a system that’s worked for years. She’ll divide it up: 50 percent goes to the husband for personal use, 25 percent for household expenses, and 25 percent for gifts to family and relatives.”
I laughed, convinced it was some kind of bizarre joke. “Okay, good one. You almost had me there.”
But his face didn’t change. “I’m serious, Sandra. This is how my parents managed their finances. Mom’s a pro at this stuff. You’ll see, it works.”
My stomach twisted. “You’re telling me I’m supposed to hand over my entire paycheck to your mom so SHE can decide HOW it’s spent? And half of it goes to YOU for ‘personal use’?”
“Exactly!”
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