Six hours into labor, clinging to Dave’s hand, I watched his phone light up with “Mom.” He stepped into the hall, came back twitchy, then whispered, “I need to go. Just quick.”
Through another contraction I begged, “Dave, no. I need you here.” “It’s my mom. Groceries are heavy,” he said—and bolted. My phone buzzed: I’ll be back soon.
The nurse saw my blood pressure spike. “Talk to me, honey.” “My husband left,” I whispered. She stayed by my side.
I called my dad, who rushed in with fried chicken, smelling like home. With Gloria, the nurse, holding my hand and my dad recording, I delivered our daughter, Gabrielle. Joy and grief hit all at once.
By discharge, I chose peace. Dad drove us home. I left a flash drive with the birth video and a letter for Dave: This is what you missed.
Decide if you understand what being a father costs. He arrived too late. At Dad’s house days later, he begged on the porch. “I chose wrong. Please let me make it right.”
I held Gabi. “Words won’t fix this. Actions will. Show me—or don’t show up at all.” Since then, he’s tried: midnight feeds, doctor visits, chores without asking.
I’m letting time decide. His mother owes an apology too—because enabling isn’t love.
